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Take a photo in good light if you can and bring it. A clinician looking at it settles this in a minute and you have already spent longer than that reading.
The oral options approved recently may change this picture over the next few years. For now, the injection is the thing with the track record, which is why they are not negotiating about it.
It is also clinically useful. Episodic treatment works best when started at the earliest sign rather than once blisters have formed, so learning your own prodrome shortens episodes in practice.
The trade off is that the slower treatments tend to have lower recurrence afterwards than the fast destructive ones. So the waiting is buying you something.
Ask about vaccination after treatment if it has not come up. Some evidence suggests it may reduce recurrence after excision, and it is a conversation several programmes are now having.
The practical argument is simpler than the immunological one. If he is untreated and you continue as normal, you get them back, and then you are both doing this again in a fortnight.
The partial exception people half remember is doxycycline after sex, which is a separate thing entirely, targets bacterial infections, and is recommended for specific groups rather than for everyone on PrEP.
The standard advice is no sex until both of you have finished treatment and symptoms have resolved. It sounds fussy and this is exactly why it exists.
Ask what look back period they use for your situation and work to that. It takes the guesswork out and it also takes the blame out, because you are following a rule rather than making an accusation about a date.
Make sure the clinic has the earlier result. If it was done elsewhere they may not, and without it you default to unknown duration and a longer course.
I would resist building a theory to avoid an awkward conversation, though. Sexual contact is by far the most likely route and partner notification is the thing that actually stops a repeat.
What I would not do is let a few days become a few months. The reason the offer exists is that the gap between diagnosis and treatment is where people disappear.
Stop anything scented in the meantime, including wipes, washes and bubble bath. A surprising proportion of persistent irritation clears with that alone.
Mine is a heavy dragging ache rather than shooting. Same pattern, same side, and it is now my most reliable signal to start episodic treatment.
It comes up for genital warts recurrence too. Same underlying idea, that smoking affects the local immune response in that tissue.
It is a real licensed treatment in a number of countries, made from green tea extract, and it is not the same thing as drinking tea or buying a supplement.
Reported clearance rates are broadly comparable to the other topical options and recurrence afterwards has looked lower in some studies, which is why it appears on clinic lists.
It is uncommon relative to how many people have gonorrhoea, and it is more likely where infection has been present for a while untreated. Which is the practical lesson rather than a reason to panic about a treated infection.
Tell the clinic what you took and when. It changes how they read a negative result and it may change whether they want to retest you later.
Follow up is longer if you also have HIV, and longer for later stage infection. So the schedule is individual rather than a single fixed programme.
What I did was mention it lightly in the context of talking about screening and vaccination rather than as an announcement. It landed completely differently from the conversation I had rehearsed.
Ask for a full screen at the same appointment. You are already there, already having the awkward conversation, and it costs you nothing extra.