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- August 17, 2026 at 10:08 pm
- in reply to: Do I need to burn my bedding?
I shaved. It did nothing except make the itching worse. Learn from me.
- August 15, 2026 at 6:08 pm
- in reply to: Treated but symptoms came back after a few weeks
This was us. I was treated, he wasn’t because he had no symptoms and assumed that meant he didn’t have it. He did. Both treated, no recurrence since.
- August 13, 2026 at 4:08 pm
- in reply to: Retest at three months came back positive again
The most common explanation by a distance is that a partner wasn’t treated at the same time, so you cleared it and then got it back from them. Treatment failure exists but it’s much rarer.
Worth asking directly whether your partner completed treatment rather than just started it, and whether you both waited the period the clinic told you to wait before having sex again. That gap catches a lot of people out.
- August 5, 2026 at 8:08 pm
- in reply to: Still had symptoms a week after the injection
Go back. Not to panic, but because there are a few different explanations and they need different responses: irritation that’s still settling, a second infection that was never treated because it wasn’t tested for, or reinfection from an untreated partner.
Persistent symptoms after treatment is one of the situations where clinics actually want to see you again. It isn’t a nuisance visit.
- August 3, 2026 at 4:08 pm
- in reply to: Partner is undetectable. Trying to understand what U=U really means
Wanting to understand rather than be reassured is a good instinct and not a slight on him. Go with him to one of his appointments if he’s open to it and ask his team directly. Hearing it from a clinician settled it for me in a way that reading couldn’t.
Worth also asking about PrEP if it would help you personally feel safer. Some people use it belt and braces even in this situation.
- July 5, 2026 at 7:08 pm
- in reply to: Where do I even start? Got a call from the clinic
Same experience. Got the call, spent four days convinced my life was over, walked out twenty minutes later with a prescription and a follow up date.
Whatever it turns out to be, it’s a thing with a name and a path, and you’ll be on that path by Thursday afternoon.